9 Femdom Butt Plug Ideas: Anal Play and Chastity For Your FLR (2025)

Ready for some super hot and sexy femdom butt plug ideas?

I’m a big fan of combining anal play and chastity in your FLR. Anal play and chastity goes together like peanut butter and jelly.

And for the cucks who have never had a butt plug shoved up their “pussy”, you’re missing out big time! You have to try it out at least once in your life.

These fun butt plug games range from novice to advanced anal sluts, so get ready to have some fun!

1. Butt plug for the workday

Make cuck wear a butt plug for the ENTIRE day at work. Yep that’s right.

In the morning after breakfast, order him to insert the plug into his little sissy hole.

Then, send him off to work!

And throughout the day he MUST send picture and video proof that he hasn’t taken the plug out.

Oh and during his lunch break, order him to go into the bathroom and rape his ass with the plug! There needs to be a funny video to accompany this too for your amusement.

When he comes home from work, make him beg on his knees to take the plug out.

Tease him for a bit by saying “oh I don’t know.” – really make him beg for it!

And when you finally allow him to take it out, inform him that he must clean it with his tongue!

2. Control at dinner

Next time you go out on a date at a restaurant, take the plug out of your purse at the table.

Make sure it is a remote control vibrating plug.

Order him to go into the bathroom and insert the plug into his sissy hole.

Throughout dinner, I want you to turn the butt plug on while he’s eating and ordering food from the waiter/waitress.

He should be in chastity too, so the vibrations will be even more of a tease!

Oh and a fun game to play is to make him take a sip of wine or beer whenever you turn on the butt plug.

By the end of the night he’ll be super drunk and VERY frustrated in his chastity cage while plugged up!

And if you want to take things to the next level, try to make him cum in his pants like this 🙂

3. Milk him in chastity

A butt plug is a great way to milk your cuck.

Here’s what I want you to do…

Order him to present his ass to you. Put a little lube on the plug and then insert it into his pretty little ass.

After that, order him to lie on his back with his knees on his chest.

You’ll turn on the vibrating butt plug with the remote. In addition, you’ll take your fingers and slowly knead/squeeze his balls between your hand.

Between your fingers and the vibrations of the plugs, he’ll blow his little cuckie load in no time – despite being locked in chastity!

And because he’s locked in chastity, the orgasm will be super frustrating!

Oh and if you want to make things more humiliating, make him suck on your dildo while you’re performing this operation.

4. Allow your bull to control the remote

Next time your bull is over, give him the remote control to cuck’s vibrating butt plug.

Allow him to control your cuck with it. How humiliating is that?

The man fucking his wife will now literally be controlling his ass haha!

Here are some fun ideas:

Tell your bull to turn on cuck’s plug while he’s fucking you!

Give bull the remote while you’re at the restaurant and have him turn it on while you two are kissing!

5. Play around with your girlfriend

Want to involve your girlfriend in some fun cuck play?

Well, this idea is super hot so you better tell one of your girlfriends about this right away!

For this game you’ll need a butt plug and a strapon.

And this is also a good training for your cuck.

Here’s what I want you to do:

Order cuck onto his knees. He will be required to insert the butt plug into his ass for you.

Meanwhile, one of you ladies will put on a strapon. He will be practicing his cocksucking skills on that strapon while the other lady toys around with his ass with the remote!

6. Family dinner fun

This is kind of a kinky idea and great for couples who crave “awkward” humiliation.

Next time you guys go to a family dinner, tell cuck to put in his butt plug.

But don’t tell him BEFORE you go. When you arrive at the house or restaurant, you will tell him then.

Throughout dinner, try to interrupt your cuck’s conversations by turning on the vibrator in his ass!

And something fun to do is try to time it so you turn on the vibrator when he’s trying to take a drink haha.

7. Buying condoms…

Okay this is a super hot idea.

The two of you will be making a little trip to the local pharmacy/drug store.

Cuck will be required to ask the person behind the counter if they have any “extra small condoms”

Oh and while he’s asking about the small condoms, you will be turning on the vibrating butt plug to tease him!

8. Femdom chores with the butt plug

Give your cuck a list of chores to do around the house like washing the dishes, laundry, and vacuuming/mopping the floors.

But this is where things get kinky. Make him wear some sissy clothes like putting on a bra and panties, wearing heels, and inserting a butt plug into his ass.

While he is trying to complete the chores, you will be relaxing on the sofa while reading a book or watching Netflix.

And when you want, turn on the vibrating butt plug to tease him and have him bring you over a cocktail!

9. The time of the month!

You shouldn’t have to go through your time of the month alone.

When that time is here, cuck will be wearing a butt plug the entire time to show his support for you.

And if you’re in a bitchy mood during this time, don’t be afraid to take it out on his little sissy ass!

Femdom Butt Plug Ideas – Final Thoughts

Overall, playing around with a remote control vibrating butt plug while your cuck is in chastity is a ton of fun.

And using a butt plug frequently will train his little “pussy” to get ready to take bigger things like strapons or your bull’s cock!

Oh and if you’re interested in a really fun butt plug system, be sure to get the Cuck Trainer!

The package comes with 3 different sized butt plugs, a vibrator, and a remote control. It’s perfect for training cuckboy to be a good anal slut for you.